Blindside of the Moment: Calvin Klein Desert Boots

All things Calvin

I'm trying to restrain myself from shopping or lusting after pretty, expensive things. But damn GQ and their summer guide for showcasing summer's footwear du jour, the desert boot and sneaker hybrid! From Calvin Klein!

I don't usually read GQ for reasons I previously enumerated. However, an item (any item) from Calvin will definitely make me swoon for more. And not to be outdone by shoes, Calvin Klein Collection (the highest echelon of all things Calvin Klein) has some cool shades to spare. Screw Prada's resin shades. (Just kidding; I still love Prada!)

Yarden ink ankle shoe by Calvin Klein, $120 at www.calvinklein.com

Song of the Moment: So Happy I Could Die

I know most of you aren't fans of Lady Gaga. I'm not a "monster" (a.k.a. Gaga-phile) either, but this song is very euphoric in a way. Perhaps it's the mellowness of the tempo. Anyway, just click on the video (from DDDiego) to get a quick whiff. It's not the official video but the theme of destruction and creation seems appropriate. After all, Gaga shatters expectations and creates new ones.

Image of the Moment: Proenza Schouler Design Team

Lazaro Hernandez and Jack McCollough with their design team and accessories

Proenza Schouler is one of the labels that I love. They don't do menswear, but their designs are very alluring, enchanting. And did I mention coveted?

Case in point their nomination for CFDA's Accessory Designer of the Year. And if that isn't enough, see the bag craze every woman (and a handful of men) has for their iconic PS1 bag.

See more of the nominees at New York Magazine.

Lesson of the Moment: Digging Your Way Out

They say learning lasts a lifetime. But why does it have to be so difficult and painful?

Have you ever had a moment when you plan something wonderful, and then it blows up--in your face? I'm sure we all experienced that.

The funny thing is that when we know we're in trouble, it's usually too late. It's much like the housing bubble (pardon the economics analogy): economists, consumers and investors don't realize a bubble has overblown until it pops.

But the other funny thing is there's always an exit route. Often, we don't recognize them or we blatantly disregard its existence. I had an exit route but the stubborn me ignored it. Hence, I dug an even deeper hole for myself.

I find it baffling that when I try so hard to solve things, that's when I get myself into deeper trouble. Yet, when I declare powerlessness do I encounter God's safety. I think that's when divine intervention kicks in.

The end result? Lesson learned. Oh and here's a bonus: a stronger, better, more experienced me.

Anyway, here is my current theme song "Hard" by Rihanna. Just because life is hard, but very rewarding. Take care everyone!

Trailers of the Moment: Summer Loving

Summer's in and school is (for the most part) out. For those looking to fill the boredom, watching Hollywood hits might just hit the spot. But for those with more obscure tastes, here are some films that'll knock off your summer blahs:





"The Informant!" The gist: Corporate biochemist segues to espionage.

Wanting to correct corporate exploitation Mark Whitacre (Matt Damon), ADM's top biochemist, works with the FBI to unveil price-fixing schemes. Sadly, this down-to-earth character becomes the center of attention after his benevolence tears his personal and professional life asunder. Life, indeed, is comedy!

Where to watch: Available in DVD





"No Night is Too Long" The gist: Passionate love turns deadly.

Tim Cornish (Lee Williams) looks for true love, but is easily swayed by lust and selfishness. His voracious hunger for affection eventually leads him to affairs he'll regret. It's a haunting tale that puts a new twist to "first love never dies."

Where to watch: Logotv.com

I highly recommend these films. If you have the chance, do check them out!