Friday, November 6, 2009

Introspection of the Moment: I Don't Want to Be Alone!

Last night, I slept over my friend's place and had a great time. Just imagine junk food, bad movies ("Step Brothers" was awful while "17 Again" oozed cheddar), and your lovable best friends all in one place. Not bad, right? Pepper in some chit chat about each other's love life (or lack thereof in my case) and the stupendously spontaneous sleepover becomes one hell of a night.

But there was something that bothered me in our "relationship" talks. While practically all of my friends are moving towards a serious (or playful) relationship, I felt that my biological function (as in find a mate) in life is on a standstill. I am in no hurry to get hooked-up with someone. The mere thought of it even gives me chills! However as I get older (I blame "17 Again" for constantly repeating "20 years, 20 years, 20 years..."), I felt the need to start finding that perfect someone.

Why is this bothering me? Could this be adulthood kicking in? Honestly, this was never an issue before. But now, the silly emptiness that I assiduously ignored is surfacing.

Or maybe, just maybe, it's time for me to go buy something.


Trish said...

oooooh nico! youre hitting your teenage life crisis!?!?! theres no such thing but if there was im guessing this would be one of their problems!

theres no shame of never having a gf or a relationship! being single actually lets you do a lot of stuff without any restrictions! go have your fun nico!!!! we're all still young, youre gonna meet someone eventually =]

Farah said...

I think it's time for you to go buy something! seriously! hahahaha

Really though, there is no shame in not having a love life. I was like that too once. perpetually single, with friends who all had partners. So don't sweat it. It's not a race. and I'm sure that one day, sooner or later, you will find your special someone. ;)

Abby Kihano said...

OH MY GOSH! NICO O_O you never told me this!!! grrr you! this is such a surprise yo!!

i mean... i never thought you'd ever consider this either -_-

anyway, we NEED to talk on thursday! i'll uhm... set you up on a blind date. hahahah with shateka. LMAO jk jk ... not so blind anymore eh?!

anyway... sleepover on thursday again! PLEASE!

Nico said...

Oh man you guys are so awesome. Thanks for the uplifting. Maybe I should take it easy. You guys are right: it's no race, right!

Abby, sorry but no sleepover this Thursday!!! I will, however, hang out with you peeps until...ehhh...7 PM.

Tobias Sweden said...

I love the tattoo!

Manju said...

hormonessssssss ;)
but really, you'll find 'The ONE' all in good time, so no worries ^^